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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Requirement & Qualification

Some women set high requirements of her future husband. Do these kind of woman sounds selfish,  materialistic maybe over confident? Actually not at all...

Ask me what are my BASIC requirements.

1st, must financially stable
Am I looking for rich husband? Of course not. This man must able to support himself financially and do a lot of savings. What's the point if he earns more but spend like big spender? This aint practical. But when comes to my needs, he must willing to use his money on me. (Sorry, I dont like stingy guys)

2nd matured & has some leadership skills (Maybe Optional)
Im not looking for a guy like Barrack Obama or Lee Kah Sing. These 2 guys share the common things. What? They're tactful and full of vision. Of course girl like me wouldnt want a guy which is indecisive & has no vision of his future. Still want me arrange future for them, which path they should take? Think youself!

3rd, caring & nice
Who dont want a nice & caring husband ? Yes, we all want! If I can find a nice & good husband like Kot Kwok Kong  in Just Love 2, I will take out the 2nd requirement. It's that simple?!

( Ask me to stop dreaming?) This is proving man are admitting they are not good species like woman!








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Men always think that these kind of women are very materialistic.

I think this are basically what a woman want in order to have a "basic fix" on marriage. Why? If guys are asking this question, let me tell you. Because man's love are not long lasting like womans'. If we dont guarantee our financially, who will? Loves will fades away so easily.

Proof? See your peoples revolves around you, the answer is so clear. Just count with your finger, how many couples' last without betraying their spouse? Im saying PURE LOYAL & EVERLASTING LOVE couples from the day they tied the knot until enter their golden age. Sadly, the truth so cruel.

I have been witnessing all these cruelties.

Im still believe there were some husband really love and care their spouse. I do. Im still seeing this kind of blessed relationship. That's why I got the HOPE.

If I really find the good guy (The One), I will do the wedding proposal instead of letting him to do that. Because he's worth my love & sacrifiction. I know he will be the only one in my life...

A woman can be crueler when a man cruel to her. When a woman loved by a man, she can be very great supporter of the man.....and she's willing (ready) to endures all the incoming hardship along their journey of life....



"Marriage is sacred & eternal, it is more than you and me but US"





1 Comments:

At 11:28 AM , Blogger wai wai said...

a great posted where i totally agreed with u....

as i say woman always treat as chewing gum....when no taste it will be throw into the dustbin....

i learn how to love myself more beside loves other...sometimes i really feel the disappointed with the thing that happened surrounding me where woman can gv whatever they can but man only takes but never give...

 

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